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Sometimes our feelings can be hard to uncover, and our thoughts can become jumbled when trying to put them into spoken words. The written word has a way of providing understanding in cases like this.

Expressing our feelings in writing can reveal an understanding of things we have not yet been able to see for ourselves.

We live in a world full of noise, constant pressure to achieve, and problems that sometimes feel unremitting and inescapable. 

All these things can feel utterly overwhelming at times, and when this is happening, the quiet hush of paper can provide the most powerful form of therapy. Journaling isn’t just writing down what comes to mind after a hard day.

It’s homecoming.

It takes all those troubling thoughts that whirl around your head and transforms them into something.

You can hold, look over, and take your time to understand them in a new, more cogent manner because it gives you some breathing room.

Its very presence becomes a place where your inner world can breathe, unravel, and be seen—without judgment.

Why Journaling Works Like Emotional Alchemy

There is something magical about writing down what is inside us.

Neuroscience shows the brain processes logic and emotion like physical signals —like internal dials that are too loud or out of tune. 

Through journaling, these inner conversations can make sense of things we’ve buried or blurred.

When you write things down:

You slow your thoughts (and stop the spirals that can lead to anxiety or depression).

You create emotional distance, like stepping 5km away from a burning fire instead of standing too close to the flames.

You give your subconscious a voice—one that too often goes unheard.

You can’t erase mistakes with journaling, but you can create something new.

And this kind of honesty, when practiced daily, brings freedom from the suffering of the mind.

Here is how to get started.

Step 1: Get Honest About What You Feel

The first step in using journaling for emotional clarity is to simply allow yourself to feel.

Everything —not just what feels tidy or socially acceptable.

Ask yourself:

What’s really going on in my heart today?

What am I avoiding?

What am I tired of carrying?

Write what feels anguished, raw, messy, or even contradictory.

Don’t hold back. Let the real YOU spill out. That’s where the gold lies.

Use this prompt:

“You have ten minutes. What do you feel most at this moment?”

As you practice, you’ll begin revealing your emotions more precisely.

Try this:

1. Instead of saying “something feels wrong,” use language like “resentful.” Different words unlock deeper truths.

2. Instead of “I’m feeling pretty good,” say “I feel numb” or “There’s quiet here.”

Ask yourself:

What emotion matters to me the most today?

And once you name it, ask what it needs.

That’s how you move from overwhelmed to empowered.

Step 2: Begin the Journey of Self-Discovery

Carve out stillness in your day—not to react to the past, but to connect with your future.

This is where self-discovery begins.

Use prompts that feel like gentle doorways rather than forceful questions.

Challenge your assumptions. Break the grip of limiting beliefs.

Let your desires rise to the surface.

Some of my favorites:

What limiting belief am I ready to let go of today?

What truth have I not admitted to myself?

What makes me feel most alive?

What would I tell my younger self at this moment?

What would my future self tell me now?

Write what’s real, not what you think is right.

Don’t be afraid of the “wrong” answer. Just write what’s natural at this moment. In this kind of exercise, there are no right or wrong answers.

Step 3: Reframe the narrative.

As the emotional dust begins to settle, journaling becomes the place where you can rewrite the script of your life.

You begin to tell better stories about and to yourself —ones where you’re not the victim of yesterday, but the author of your new, improved tomorrow.

That’s where healing begins.

Try this:

Write a letter to your younger self, filled with compassion.

Write a letter from your future self, filled with wisdom.

Rewrite a painful moment from your life—but this time, tell it from a place of power.

This is no longer just journaling. This is changing the story in your mind, which will repeat every single time you start to think of where you are headed. Time to embrace it and begin.

© D’vorah Elias 2025

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